Unsere neue Partyreihe

für alle gays und queers bis 32!

NoDifference! organisiert Parties, Poetry Slams und andere Veranstaltungen.

diversity stands for variety, openness, and respect. Everyone should feel comfortable and safe in our spaces. That's why it's important to us that everyone treats each other with respect, looks out for one another, and respects each other's boundaries.

If you experience or notice anything in our spaces that does not comply with these principles, you can contact the volunteers or the bouncer at any time.

One more note:

Our team works on a purely voluntary basis, i.e., all the people behind the bar, organizing group meetings, etc., do so in their free time alongside their studies, training, or work.

We ask you to recognize and appreciate this. If something doesn't work out 100%, remember: we are not a professional catering business, but an association run by teenagers and young adults themselves.

  1. Our stance

Diversity stands for variety, openness, and respect.

Everyone should feel comfortable and safe in our spaces—regardless of gender, gender identity, sexual orientation, origin, skin color, religion, disability, body shape, or social background.

We stand for solidarity and cooperation. This means:

  • We treat each other with respect.
  • We look out for each other.
  • We respect personal boundaries.
  • We take responsibility for our own behavior.

Discrimination, abusive behavior, violence, sexism, racism, queerphobia, ableism, or other forms of exclusion have no place here.

  1. Consensus & boundaries

Consensus is sexy!

Physical closeness, flirting, conversations while dancing or touching your CRUSH or other people are only okay if everyone involved clearly agrees.

  • A "no" must always be accepted.
  • • Silence is not a "yes" and should therefore be interpreted as a no.
  • Consent can be withdrawn at any time, even if a clear yes was given beforehand.
  • Alcohol or other substances are not a justification for crossing boundaries. Rather, they are a reason to be even more sensitive when flirting and making physical contact.
  • • Not everyone likes physical closeness. Please respect boundaries and pay attention to the body language of the person you are interacting with!
  • Definitional power: The person affected decides for themselves when a boundary has been crossed.
  • No assumptions: We respect pronouns and gender identities. Ask instead of guessing.
  • If you notice that you are unable to set your own boundaries or communicate clearly with the other person, please notify our awareness or bar team.
  • • If you feel harassed, feel free to use the code word "Is Luisa here?" at the bar, to the bouncer, or to the awareness team, and our volunteers will get you out of the situation and take you to a safe, quiet space.

Be mindful of your own boundaries—and those of others.

  1. Age group and sensitivity to age range

Since our youth center is normally a safe space for people up to the age of 27, opening it up to people up to the age of 32 requires special mindfulness and mutual respect.

We are aware that different stages of life bring with them different power dynamics.

Specific protection for younger visitors

Since diversity is primarily a youth center, younger visitors enjoy special protection, which is why the needs of the core target group (up to 27) come first. The JUZ remains their "living room."

We welcome older members of our community, but also communicate clear expectations regarding their role as "guests" at the youth center:

Sense of responsibility: Older visitors are asked to be aware of the potential power dynamics (life experience, financial resources, etc.).

Zero tolerance for "creeper" behavior: Intrusive flirting, "hitting on" significantly younger people against their apparent will, or taking advantage of inexperience will result in immediate expulsion.

Check-in at the ticket office: Upon admission, all visitors over the age of 27 will be briefly informed about the special nature of our facility. A friendly reminder: "You are in a space that primarily belongs to younger people. Please be especially mindful of their boundaries."


4. Look out for each other

We want to foster a culture of looking out for each other instead of looking away. We are a large community and want to be there for each other.

  • • If you notice that someone is uncomfortable, talk to them. Or report the tense situation to the Awareness Team.
  • Get support if a situation seems strange to you.
  • Don't leave anyone who needs help alone.
  • Keep an eye on your drinks and those of your friends.

Together, we can create a safe space where everyone feels secure and free.

  1. If something happens

If something happens or you notice something in our spaces that does not comply with these principles, you can always contact:

  • the volunteers
  • the Awareness Team (if available, they may be identifiable by rainbow armbands, for example)
  • • or the bouncer

• here, too, you can use the code word "Is Luisa here?".

Depending on the incident, you decide for yourself:

• whether you want to talk

• whether you need support

• whether we should intervene

  • • or if you just need a safe place to retreat to

We take every report seriously and treat it confidentially and in your best interests.

  1. Consequences of misconduct

Anyone who does not adhere to our principles must expect consequences. Depending on the situation, these can range from:

  • a clarifying conversation
  • • a warning
  • temporary exclusion from the event
  • to a ban from the premises or legal action

The Awearness team will also be present throughout the evening at the party to ensure that everyone is doing well.

Instructions from our Awearness team bouncers and bar staff must always be followed; they are also subject to house rules.

The protection of our visitors is our top priority.

  1. Substances & Responsibility

For many, alcohol is part of a party – as is responsibility.

  • Pay attention to your consumption and that of your friends
  • Do not pressure anyone to consume alcohol or other substances.
  • • Pay special attention to people who appear to be heavily intoxicated.

Illegal drugs of any kind are prohibited on the party premises at all times. Observed consumption or similar will result in a ban from the premises and the police being called.

  • • If you realize that you have had too much to drink, get a free bottle of water at the bar. The awareness team will also be happy to sit with you in the fresh air or call you a taxi.

We reserve the right to refuse entry to heavily intoxicated persons or to exclude them from the event.

  1. Appreciation for volunteers

Our team works on a purely voluntary basis.

Everyone behind the bar, at the entrance, or in the organization is involved in their free time alongside their studies, training, or work.

We ask you to recognize and appreciate this.

If something doesn't work out 100%, remember: we are not a professional catering business, but an association run by teenagers and young adults.

Respect also applies to our team and the premises.

  1. Our common goal

We want a party where:

  • • People can dance freely
  • Friendships are formed
  • Diversity is celebrated
  • Everyone feels safe
  • We network across generations

We can only achieve this together.

Thank you for being part of it 💛

Your NoDifference! Team